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A million times YES to this!!! My kid is seven years old and acts more independent than most grown ass men I know. My mom raised me the same way and I’m glad she did. I knew how to navigate life a hell of a lot earlier because of it.  “You never let me do anything,” my five year old said to me one day. Your Hole Is My Goal Heavy Equipment Operator Shirt. That was when I told him he couldn’t take his tablet into school. And keeping in mind we have family memberships/season passes to many places he likes to go. Today was an especially difficult day with our 4 and 5 year old boys.

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Our 5 year old even pulled the great, “I don’t love you anymore!” I knew I had lost my temper more than once, and apologized to our 5 year old at bed time. “I’m sorry for getting so upset at you,” I said. He smiled at me and said, “it’s ok. Things happen!” We gave hugs and kisses and said goodnight.  I think parenting is all about being consistent and honest with your kids,the rest will take care of itself, you cannot control all of what they see and do. Everything in moderation. Trying to balance everything is hard work but we gotta keep trying. One step forward one step back. It’s the cha cha!

Dennis, it made me tear up to see that you tagged your wife. I’m just going to assume she feels this way, and Emilys comment hit home. So sweet. You’re a great husband to recognize that. Sometimes you just realize you’re not balancing things, & even then, it can be hard to re-balance. I think a lot of people experience this. It takes time. My 3 year old still gets most of my best times, but I’m trying to even things out better these days. Oh man. This was me. My daughter is two years and two months and my husband and I have started reconnecting in a way we haven’t in a log time.

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A week ago I told him I was thankful this part of us hasn’t been lost, even though it took us so long to get back to it. Made both of us feel very nostalgic, but also appreciate it so much more. Marriage is HARD. So much harder than anyone tells you, so much harder than the romance movies and the meet cutes. Because let’s face it, once the honeymoon period is over, you have to learn to live with your spouse and all of their idiosyncrasies and issues. Opinions, jobs, money, who does what, who does the things you both love and who does the things you both hate. And then a life event comes along and you both change and you need to figure out all over again how to live and love with this other person.

Time passes and you both grow and change some more, and start the process over again.Throw in those that are dependents, kids, pets, farms and businesses, in laws, and you may as well start banging your head against the wall. (Yes, I know, but it feels like that some days). AND all marriages will be different. Some people are very passionate, some are more subtle. You will never get where you want to be measuring your marriage against someone else’s.  I’ve been marred for 12 years, and my significant other drives me up the wall, in good and bad ways.

It’s never been easy, never EVER, for us lol. But we are committed to that first love and though it isn’t easy, those hard won moments are worth it… most days. And if you read that last bit and judged yourself, stop please. Last night if I had written this, Your Hole Is My Goal Heavy Equipment Operator Shirt, I’m not sure I’d have written it was worth it. Not All marriages are bound for foreverness. As an adult, you have to make sure that you are taken care of as well and sometimes this means making a healthy choice not to stay together.