Crystal and her kids were only viewed as extensions of himself, not as their own people. His tears are grieving the loss of his perceived self, not the loss faced by Crystal, children and other family/friends. Narcissistic traits include manipulation. They are masters at twisting the Member Christmas Sweater so that they are viewed as the victim. It’s a mental illness. Crystal stayed because she was an empath- losing her parents at such a young age amplified her abilities to feel deeply for others. Unfortunately, empaths are prime prey for Narcissistic people.
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I hope and pray that you continue to be blessed with the Member Christmas Sweaterto keep the hatred out of your heart and of the children. I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family are going through, but to know that you are a true Christian, brings a sense of hope. I applaud you for not being hateful during this horrific trial, when it would be so easily acceptable by the majority.