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As a mother of two and also married I’m grateful I’m able to give time to not only my children but my husband as well. But I’ll be honest that leaves ZERO TIME FOR JUST ME. It leaves me tired. Between the kids, housework, cooking, and my husband I’m dying by the time it’s bedtime. When my head hits the pillow I’m gone. But at least every one is happy. Snoopy Before Coffee After Coffee Shirt. A happy family is all I need. Thank you….now I know I’m not alone in my thinking. Ugh…I’ve cried more in the last six months then I care to admit and mostly because I feel like we are just surviving and not enjoying. Between two toddlers, the dog getting fleas, laid off from a job, finding a new job, the holidays, a basement flood…..im tapped.

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People need to remember before baby that you were a couple … You still need that time together to stay connected … It’s a two way thing both people are trying to do their bit usually and can’t see it from the other persons side . The reason I am alone. No kids AND No man. Maybe a man….someday .I said maybe. I am on the fence as they say on the topic of kids. Not too sure about either band wagon( A Man AND Kids are TWO separate rides) and if you are not too sure than it probably is not the best idea to go for it . You have to be 100% positive. I enjoy playing with other people’s children as well as my friend’s kids.

So…is the real topic then: how do women get men to actually do half the work in a FAMILY? Because this all goes on traditional gender roles … Not just having kids. You have to balance the two . And dont feel guilty your marrige should be the most important tj ing in your world for without the love for one another, you cannot be a full time mom , if mom does not have any down time for dad . This was and is me. This is why my husband left for a 19 year old. This is why I’m getting divorced after 8 years together and 4 years of marriage.

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Don’t put it all on yourself. It takes two to tango in all walks of life. I don’t know your situation, but a good husband doesn’t leave after only 8 years for a younger girl because he can’t handle rough patches of marriage. When I got pregnant is when he started cheating. 11 times over the 8 years total. So yeah…but this was his excuse. I was a controlling bi*** that forgot how to be a wife. He seems like an immature ass. You deserve better and you will find someone who understands the challenges of life and not give up at the first struggle.

He sees it with me sadly. I hate being a sahm at the moment. I’m trying to get a new job and being at home makes me want to jump in front of a semi. Perhaps you need to don heels, pearls, and a trim dress for him whilst you greet him with a kiss, the paper, anda fresh cocktail. I think for me it’s about trying to juggle the priorities of what everyone wants and that can be difficult! I can’t possibly be everywhere at once! There’s no way I’m cooking a meal from scratch every single day after working 9 hours and making sure homework is taken care of while preparing for the next day and juggling the meltdowns of the kids! Sorry!!

Not happening !! But then I feel bad for not being Super Woman and not being at my best at all times.  It’s hard when you can’t force children down the priority ladder. I have an asthmatic who’s only four, and it is what it is. You don’t get to put yourself or your spouse or your relationship before a child who needs medical attention. Snoopy Before Coffee After Coffee Shirt.  I don’t think they mean to neglect your kids. Of course you would take care of their needs before anything else. I just think it means making time to spend together without the kids.